We find ourselves liking someone very much in an instant. We begin to feel much closer to them suddenly, after a brief conversation. We tag them as “Our people” at one point of time. There we start forgetting few things. The following words are for those who are about to tag or already tagged and worrying.
Yes change is the one that doesn’t change. People do change. Even us. But there will be few people who would like to do things for you, be there for you and be happy on seeing you smile. Even those people might sometimes disappoint you. Everyone should have give a second to think, “Are they really our people? Or is it me who is being stupid getting emotionally connected with them?”.
The reality is, it’s not the person who disappoint you, but the moment. The truth is every moment of your life is being gifted. So, when a moment with ‘your people’ is not good, don’t blame that person but accept that the gifted moment is not good. Because, you might find the best moments with the same person the very next day. Whom would you appreciate at that point? The person? You? God?
So next time, if you want to blame someone for the bad vibes, instead of complaining about the person, let it be on the moment you got that day. Very simple, your love towards the person will never change!
Sisha Says 