When someone asked me when I was a kid, what time zone are you in? I have said it’s based on GMT. But when the same question is posted to me now I’m sure that, that won’t be my answer. Yes! In the course of maturity I realized everyone has our own time zone.  Say geographically,  California is behind the time compared to the New York. But it doesn’t stop California to flourish in its economy. To bring the concept with an example, lets say our heroes are A and B.  A completes his civil engineering in 4years and B does his Architecture for 1year more. Just because A is graduated earlier than B it doesn’t mean he will settle in life soon. Though B takes his own time, the way he is settled in 2years maybe equal to the 5years work of A. Every person has a sand-clock in his life, once the sand drips from one end to the other end it will be flipped sides. It can dawn only after the dusk!
So the time zone of each of us is destined and we are travelling perfectly in it. Therefore instead of comparing yours with some others time zone, live your own and make it valuable.


Be Bad, it’s good

No one and nothing is made pure. Sometimes you have to be a good person but with defects. Only then you will be valued. We know ‘too much of anything is good for nothing’ but are we realizing it? No. There are two cases :

1) Expecting people to be too good

2)Being too good to others.

Both the cases leads to pain. No one in this world will be an angel to you, serving you with all the palatable experiences in your plate of life. And being good to others is acceptable, you can escape from the loses. But when you try to reach its extent, even the God can’t save you from the pit you are going to fall. This cunning world will never value the way you made it feel, but only the way you did not make it feel. It’s better to be selfish giving some time for yourself and not acting as per your surrounding’s wish. When you make yourself available too much, you are sure for taken to be granted. Even in a corporate, when you are too good at your work, you may be too loyal to your senior level but when it’s decided by the management to cut down you, none of your positive behaviors will help you. There’s no point in regretting about enjoying the days with your friends after getting fired. Living in this kind of world, we have to reflect how they are. That’s why it is said, when you are in Rome, be a Roman.