Secret

No harm when it stays silent but even when it whispers, that’s it.

With all those angelic faces we live on Earth but is that the true faces of everyone???

Every time when two people say,”No secrets.”/ “Yes. No secrets hereafter” the secret peeps out of the heart and give a wicked smile. Whoever it can be, no one is deprived of it irrespective they like it or not.

How close you feel a person maybe you can’t force yourself form hiding something from them neither do they. It’s better to have an open-minded thought that like a coin everyone has two sides. If the whole world can wear mask and walk then you can find the real face of them.

I like the thought said in the title song of an English serial “Two can keep a secret when one of them is dead”. I feel it’s true because that’s the nature of secret. It can’t stay in a place. It’s not a bird which can stay inside the cage. It’s like the fragrance of a flower, though the metaphor is in a positive way that’s it’s character. It spreads in a moment.

So it’s better to have an open heart rather than letting our heart and mind to hit hard with that ‘not-so-told-story’!

Accpetance

Dear Ami,

It’s hard.

You know they are acting foolish, what they are doing is against your wish. You are trying to explain them, throw light on your points of defense still they act like a deaf frog. Few things are changeable whereas the others are like the facts scripted in the gold olden temples, we can’t modify it. But if you want to, it will take a hell lot of time to make the change.

There would be few things which can be said that they are not beyond our hands and those things we can take control of as per our wish. For the others which are beyond our hands, we need to accept them. Whatever happens to us are destined and our destiny is made out of what we did. 

Few things are meant for us. We will get them for sure. No hard work needed for it.

Few are not meant for us. However you try for them, you won’t get it. A pain pierces our heart at that moment. To get relieved from it, get used to accept things as they are.

Acceptance doesn’t mean that you sacrifice and others are happy. It is sometimes for your happiness, for your life to be happy. Things which seems unclear today will surely be 4K pixels view in front of your eyes soon. It just takes some time. Trust this!

Regards,

Your Ami.

Betrayal

“It is easier to forgive an enemy than to forgive a friend.” –William Blake

  • If someone has a no-limit knowledge, they won’t feel bad about it.
  • If someone has so much of money, they won’t regret for it.
  • If someone has full-filled happiness, they won’t devour it.

But if someone has a 100% trust, then it’s a sure fact that they will regret it someday!

In my opinion, the sufferer has an equal part in their betrayal. Yes of course, because it’s their fault to trust the stabber blindly. Whoever it maybe there’s a limit to believe them or follow their path. I may not have said this during the past era when they were valueing the promises. But this is not in today’s scenario.
When you face such a situation, the best way to stay happy (not completely, maybe not hurted much) is to forgive them. I may sound like a devotee of Buddha,but that’s the truth my friend.

Try following this when you face such a situation. You need not talk to them. You can avoid them completely. Never think about the worst part they did to you, but the good moments, the moments you enjoyed with them, the moments when they made you think you are the best. Believe me, your pain and wrath will lessen for sure. I know that some things can’t be forgiven. Still try to stay calm.

Just think, ‘Betrayal’ is an evil word and they did it to you and they are living their moment even now. ‘Trust’ is a divine word, you did it, so why did you regret. It is them who need to sit in a corner and think about it and not you. So move on. You have many other good moments and good people to talk to.

‘Forgive & Forget’ though not for other’s cause, for maintaining your Blood Pressure 😉

STUBBORN

Yes this is me.
I’ll get what I need.
If you say I’m headstrong, I don’t mind. Maybe that’s the version of you describing me. Even that’s an adjective!
There maybe people who say, “She’s rude. She doesn’t even think about how others feel when she stay rigid on her decision.”.
Yes I have heard these words. But you know what, those comments  disappear the moment when I achieve something through staying hard in my decision.

My belief is that even if our will doesn’t go in the right path, if we stay fixed in what we act and what we want, things will fall in place.

Words from your surrounding may reach you like the venom polished arrows. But make sure you cover yourself with sound proof wrapper till you reach your goal. The goal maybe any, but this serves true.

I’m not saying that we should ignore the advice of our well-wishers  in this process. Accepting suggestions is important, but applying it in your life matters. Our permutation skill comes in handy these moments!

Being stubborn always makes us feel responsible for ourselves. So no worry in being like that, since it’s your world and your life!

Possessive

possessive

Some say that I’m taking advantage of him/her. Some say that I’m confining his/her relationships. Some say that I’m being mommy to him/her.

But I say, I feel him/her as precious. Those anger or confusion, as an out-break of seeing him/her talking closely with others are not actually showing the evil part of me. But it is showing the insane me who doesn’t know how to show my overflowing love to them. If the other side understands me and act in a matured way, the bond grows strong. In the other case unfortunately it ends a beautiful relationship.

 

Possessiveness is a thing to feel happy about. If someone considers you to that level where they can leave others for you (hopefully it’s not because of “The Love”) you need to feel privileged and not cross. Only few can get that chance of becoming someone’s significant part of life.

 

CASE 1:

I have this friend of mine, lets say, ‘A’ who met ‘B’ for the first time and instantly started feeling ‘You are my Bestie. ‘B’ who was a bit (truth is a whole lot) close with another person ‘C’. At first ‘A’ started telling ‘B’ that she doesn’t like ‘B’ spending time with ‘C’. But unfortunately this regular insisting went against her where at one moment ‘B’ said “Stay out of my life. I don’t want someone to rule me and tell me what to do”. OOPS! does anyone want such an ending to such a pretty relationship?

 

CASE 2:

I have this another friend ‘D’ who faced the same situation with ‘E’. Whereas here, the moment ‘D’ started feeling possessive, she gave a pause to their friendship. She reduced talking to ‘E’ and just posing smile whenever she faced ‘E’. This made ‘E’ to realize that he missed her a lot. Later even when ‘E’ was with ‘F’ (the one who is the reason for ‘D’ to become possessive on ‘E’), he started missing her. And finally, ‘F’ recognised whose friendship he valued the most. Now all are happy ‘D-E-F’ [Still E doesn’t talk to F 😉 ].

 

We must find a way to handle things if we love something that much.

            Sometimes we need to be stubborn.

            Sometimes we need to let go of something to get it back.

            And sometimes we need to understand.

 If we do these, then possessiveness is the cutest feeling of all!